A Cool Vibe

Energy is the secret to charisma! Well first it probably starts with self image. Believing in your core that you have charisma and that you are a cool and charming person. Also attitude is important, having that wild untamed outlook on life. So it does involve more than just energy, but to me energy is the secret unseen X factor. Its the cool vibe, possessed by people like the Sean Connery James Bond. Because the problem is you can have the attitude, and the self image but still not be likeable, so this is the like the final touch on having charisma. Its what real zen masters have. Its that Strong, powerful, subtle calming essence that emanates from these certain people as they speak, or go about their lives. It's an Unshakeableness, a state of being totally Unphaseable. Being absent of the glitches in consciousness, and anxiety attacks that govern most people's lives. Its a positivity, and sense of carefree indifference. Calmness, nonthreatening friendliness, or just an obviously authentic honesty as to ones true inner state of being. Composure, keeping cool, not making a big deal out of anything. Not getting over excited. No exaggerated reactions. The ability to let go of or walk away from anything. Being a good listener. A rare sense of peace. Being comfortable in one's own skin. Staying detached. Having good positive energy, and BEING that way so that it is maintained. 

That is the secret key to charisma.