My Goals And Dreams

I have 2 life goals.

1. Become a professional musician.

2. Become a professional dating coach. 

The Past

Looking back probably the biggest cumulative event that ever happened in my life was my loss of confidence. Up through grade school it was beaten down so many times by spiteful people. Its like the old story of chickens trying to raise a young eagle to be like them. At one point the chicken travels to find the eagle and then finds out he is an eagle and that he could fly off at any time. That young eagle was me. 

I think I just never knew that I could fight against this lack of confidence. If I had known how to do that, I know my life would be pretty incredible by now. Well, now I know I'm the eagle in a world full of chickens. This knowledge is the most powerful thing I have. I am so glad I sought out that mentor. 

Royal Proclamation.

I hereby proclaim I am now and forever more COMPLETELY indifferent. I am completely indifferent to any possible outcome, situation and any resolution. I am completely carefree. I let go of all of it. I give up all wanting sex, or any other result. I Completely let it all go!

PERSEVERANCE

In 1945 Steve Reeves found himself stranded in Tokyo with general MacArthur's troops after just recovering from Malaria in World War 2. After suffering from Malaria he found himself physically below par. Of course he was still far more in shape than most people but par for Steve meant having the strength and physique of a greek demi-god. In the whole city of tokyo there were no gyms or any equipment to work out with and this would have discouraged 99.999% of people. Steve Reeves was NOT one of those people. He FOUND a way to get it done, NO excuses. He located an interpreter and took him to the local welder. After a lot of hand gesturing and waving, andy many sketches and directions he had a 300 LB barbell set, and started the very first gym in Tokyo. Soon he had many people attending and as many training partners as he needed (which he didn't anyway). All this because he was a LEADER. 

Sex in 5 minutes.

I've always been a big believe in having sex with a woman VERY soon after first meeting her. Of course if you're both attracted to each other. I think that you really need to get that sexual tension out of the way early on, or else the relationship will just never be any good. This is why I have the 30 minute rule. If I haven't had sex with a woman within 30 minutes of knowing her, I just move on. Maybe up to 45 minutes but that's definitely stretching it. 

Basically all women have a half hour to get in my pants or I'm gone. I know this is hard for most readers to believe, but YES, it does work. 

I am going to be single for the rest of my LIFE!

I love being single so much. I think I'm just going to be this way for the rest of my life. I want absolutely nothing to do with a serious exclusive relationship. All I'm interested in is lots of casual no strings attached sex. I am COMPLETELY incapable of anything more than a purely physical sexual relationship. Once a man has had this there is no going back. Because if this works, WHY WOULD YOU EVER EVVVVVVVVVERRRRRR do anything else!

I want to be single for the rest of my Life!

I love being single so much. I think I'm just going to be this way for the rest of my life. I want absolutely nothing to do with a serious exclusive relationship. All I'm interested in is lots of casual no strings attached sex. I am COMPLETELY incapable of anything more than a purely physical sexual relationship. 

Once a man has had this there is no going back. Because if this works, WHY WOULD YOU EVER EVVVVVVVVVERRRRRR do anything else!

I should probably just become a pornstar because that would be my ideal lifestyle.

Great Quote by Dorian Yates.

Everything is always more complicated and fancy in the States. At least that's the way we see it. Everyone (in the States) goes to therapy and all that sh!t, whereas we would simply say, "F@ck that, just get on with it." 

Making Something Out of Nothing

You hit the streets. Some of them are cold. Some of them don't respond. But then there are the few with the fuck me eyes. Sex in 5 minutes. If that works... WHY WOULD YOU EVER DO ANYTHING ELSE!!!???

Confession!

I READ COMIC BOOKS! Yes here it is for the whole world to see. I read comic books, I love them.  I find it very relaxing. I love the dramatic storylines, all the cliches. I like the artwork. I think its very cool. So you think I'm a dork. Whatever. I love them so much I will never stop reading them. Take that! 

Why The US System of Sport Development SUCKS!

Most of the professional athletes in America are NOT actually the best in the world. They do NOT have the best talent, athleticism, skill, or anything. What they do have is one thing, and that is the ability and luck to be able to maneuver up through the political system.

I'll start from the beginning.

It really all starts with at they youth level. At the very youngest level, the best team will be coached by one the young boy's father who has the time, and he'll only allow his son of course first and foremost, and then their circle of friends to be on that team. 

Now it wouldn't be that bad if this was the only setback, in fact that's not even that bad, real talent, and real athletes could easily get past this kind of small mindedness. What really kills it is the next highschool level. Here you always have a completely incompetent coach who never had any real ability in the sport. Basically a failure who for some reason wants to keep pursuing it vicariously through others but is inferiority complex now makes him do some pretty strange things, and one of them is ONLY giving preference to the other inferior and mediocre athletes of course just like him! Hmmmm, now we are starting to see a really serious problem. Especially since highschool is the first springboard for all pro athletes in our system. So basically this coach puts down all the athletes with real talent and drive and advances the medicore assholes and interestingly also the popular kids who have even less athletic ability. 

I really can't explain the reason behind that one, but I've confirmed the same thing with many other people from different highschools across America.

So anyway to conclude, its easy to see this really weeds out the best talent from the start. Imagine how much greater and more inspiring pro sports would be for the people today if it wasn't a bunch of useless primadonna losers like it is today. 

Pro sport is a huge abyss of wasted time and mediocrity. The kind of athletes you see in the leagues today are just an example of how retarded and worthless the whole system, and the impotent effect of all the lame losers involved in the whole process from the very beginning. 

One more addendum is that the highest level of Amateur competition should NOT be college! It creates so many more problems. The whole system is ridiculous, and I refuse to support it in ANY way. 

The problem with Routines

There are many problems and flaws with the concept of using routines. 

The biggest one, is the trend towards outrageous stuff. Basically blurting out very unusual/outrageous statements, questions and stories to hold people's attention. Doing this is so far from being suave that anyone who does this I wouldn't put them on the intermediate level. Very beginner stuff, not even amateur. You're just pegging yourself as a wierdo with no social skills. Is that the goal?? That's really the only possible ending, even though you might be holding people's attention and not getting rejected.  That is why I put this as the number one reason. It just places you so far away from being that cool person who can fit in anywhere. 

Ok number 2 problem with this is it negates the need to get out of the comfort zone where real psychological growth in power occurs. If you're just reciting things you won't learn as much about social life and yourself. Especially if you're saying outrageous stuff out of the blue that really has no context. 

Its just not the way to have a conversation. 

Poem

A man walks into a bar. He is not wearing a cowboy hat. He is not wearing cowboy boots. This man is me. He doesn't war any of these types of clothing. Nay. 

Guide to Elite Conversational Skills

1. Have good energy and have good control over your emotions. Be positive and feel good and confident about yourself. This is the core ability. While other people are feeling unsure of themselves and looking for someone to lean on, you will be the addictive anchor of confidence and good feelings.

2. Smile and crack jokes. Again, most people are severely lacking in confidence and self esteem. They are afraid you might be judging them negatively or that the conversation might take a bad turn, so by doing this you are disarming them and reminding them to just chill out.

3. Ask Questions. First just ask some general questions like where are they from. Just keep coaxing them to say a little bit more, and eventually they'll reveal some topics that they are really interested in talking about. You'll be able to tell these from their body language. Once that happens, ask them more questions about those topics, and they'll do all the talking in the conversation.

4. Be genuinely and powerfully interested in them, what they've been up to and what they've got going on in their life. The real power lies, in hearing what they have to say, not because they will give you some valuable information (though that is a possibility), but because that is the true key to their hearts.

Fun Night Out

Picture this.

A 26 year old man, not shaved for 3 days. Wearing normal blue jeans and a black T-shirt and sneakers, goes out to a bar by himself. He gets to the crowded bar and just stands there by himself drinking a beer, everyone else is there with groups of people. His hair looks like he just got out of bed, and he looks like a mess.

That was me last night.

I was thinking of not even going out, but I figure just 1 drink.

I go to the bar and get a beer. The first thing that happens is the bartender gives me this huge elaborate glass, while everyone else is drinking small plastic cups, and he tells me I'm a VIP. (I have never even seen this guy before). So I'm like "cool thanks". Then a few minutes later some chick comes and approaches me. She starts talking about how she's armenian and eastern european and all this stuff, and I'm just trying to follow Brent's directions and say as little about myself as possible, I think I did a pretty good job. So a couple minutes later she says "Can I get your phone #?, I hope I'm not being too forward". So I gave her the number. A few seconds later I finish my drink while another hot girl is rubbing against me from behind when there's plenty of room and I say "well I'm heading out" And she goes on about how she's going to call me, I tell her to just send me a text. 

The wierd thing is though that I had more success just by standing there for 5 minutes than every other guy there who were all dressed in trendy clothes, had good, neat haircuts, were actually there with friends and girls and had social proof...

Energy is the most important thing!

A Cool Vibe

Energy is the secret to charisma! Well first it probably starts with self image. Believing in your core that you have charisma and that you are a cool and charming person. Also attitude is important, having that wild untamed outlook on life. So it does involve more than just energy, but to me energy is the secret unseen X factor. Its the cool vibe, possessed by people like the Sean Connery James Bond. Because the problem is you can have the attitude, and the self image but still not be likeable, so this is the like the final touch on having charisma. Its what real zen masters have. Its that Strong, powerful, subtle calming essence that emanates from these certain people as they speak, or go about their lives. It's an Unshakeableness, a state of being totally Unphaseable. Being absent of the glitches in consciousness, and anxiety attacks that govern most people's lives. Its a positivity, and sense of carefree indifference. Calmness, nonthreatening friendliness, or just an obviously authentic honesty as to ones true inner state of being. Composure, keeping cool, not making a big deal out of anything. Not getting over excited. No exaggerated reactions. The ability to let go of or walk away from anything. Being a good listener. A rare sense of peace. Being comfortable in one's own skin. Staying detached. Having good positive energy, and BEING that way so that it is maintained. 

That is the secret key to charisma. 

You Know you're a Blackhearted Rogue if:

You spend your time trying to think of things to do other than robbing liquor stores and beating up little old ladies.

You've woken up with an awful hangover... in jail.

A nice dinner is a bottle of wine. 

You are ONLY capable of a physical relationship.

You have no furniture in your apartment room except your bed. 

You never date or make phone calls. 

You were born on the 13th. 

Taking it slow is waiting more than 15 minutes to have sex.

You grew up roaming the city streets and back alleyways. 

You will NEVER get married. 

Nothing but trouble on your mind.

Best Dream Ever

Had an amazing dream I had a threesome with 2 lovely Russian women last night. One of them got naked and I pounced on her. I will keep this one in mind.